What Is A Promise
Ring?
A promise ring is a symbol of love and commitment made from
one person to another. It traditionally is given during dating
when the relationship turns more serious. When you give a
promise ring, you are promising to love the recipient forever
and to be faithful. Commonly, a promise ring is given before
engagement. It can symbolize sort of a trial period
before engagement.
Promise rings are not necessarily meant
just for women. There trend for the women giving a promise ring
to a man is growing more popularity. Both men and women can
wear promise rings to symbolize their commitment to each other.
If a man gives you a promise ring, he is not doubt proud of you
and wants to spend his life with you. You can surprise him
doing the same.
Promise ring is not an engagement ring. So, you don't have
to follow the guide for price such as two-month salary. Promise
rings shouldn't have to be a diamond rings which are relatively
expensive. You can find a beautiful promise ring for
under $ 200. You can choose any metal from sterling silver to
white gold or titanium, etc.
Moreover you can add any gemstones such as pearl, emerald,
topaz etc, for more stunning promise rings. Sterling silver and
cubic zirconia are the perfect choices for affordable promise
rings. Wom on the left hand ring finger is the traditional
finger, a beautiful promise ring is often ceremoniously
switched to the right hand when the engagement ring takes its
place.
What exactly is a promise
ring?
When an agreement or oath has been made between two people,
a promise ring is a piece of jewelry given as a token of the
commitment that was made.
The promise made between two people can be practically
anything. It's imperative that both parties are clear on the
meaning of the pact or pledge. For example:
- Monogamy: A promise to stay faithful
to on another.
- Chastity or Purity: A promise to keep
ones virginity until marriage.
- Friendship: A promise to seal a pledge
of eternal friendship.
- Substance or Sobriety: A promise to
remain free from addictive behavior (alcohol, drugs, food,
gambling, etc.).
- Religious or Christian: A promise to
remain committed to one's faith or belief in the God of
their understanding.
These are just a few of the more popular reasons to give or
wear a promise ring.
How does one a wear a promise
ring - which finger, which hand?
Basically it's strictly a matter of personal preference,
however the finger and hand you choose can depend entirely on
the type to ring it is and in some cases the type of pledge.
Most people associate the wearing of a ring on the left hand
ring finger to mean that a significant commitment of some sort
has been made.
If the promise is for pre-engagement, many couples choose to
wear this ring on their left hand ring finger. They then switch
the ring to their right hand once the actual engagement ring or
wedding band is received. Likewise a ring exchanged for the
promise of monogamy or fidelity would be worn on the left hand
ring finger to symbolize that the wearer's heart is taken.
Where did the promise ring
originate
Rings themselves have been symbolic for many thousands of
year. The circle has no beginning and no end is a strong symbol
for eternity.
Have you ever heard of a scribbling ring? In sixteenth
century England, uncut diamond crystals were set into rings and
exchanged by lovers. The wearers of these scribbling rings
would use the points of the diamonds to etch (or "scribble")
romantic writings to each other in glass, mirrors or
windows.
Another popular ring exchanged during Shakespearian times
was called a Posey Ring. Posey rings (or promise ring poems)
are inscribed with poetic phrases or dates significant to the
wearer.
It is believed that wearing words next to ones skin has a
magical effect. These symbolic words may be carved on the
outside or inside of the ring, or on both sides, there is on
right or wrong way to do it!
Posey Rings
Posey rings are a romantic way to share an expression of
love and come engraved with beautiful sayings. It is no
surprise that since French is said to be the language of love
-- the French poesy’s are very popular. Some special phrases
include:
- EN BIEN EMER - Encircled with love
- J'AIME ET J'ESPERE - I love and I hope
- MON COERAVEZ - My heart you have
- NE WELL AYMER AUTRE QUE VOUS -- Do not wish to love any
other
- PAP GRANT AMOUR -- For my greatest love
Other phrases:
In English:
ALL I REFUSE AND THEE I CHUSE
FAITHLES TO NONE YET FAITHFUL TO ONE
In Latin:
SEMPER AMEMUS -- Our love is forever
AMOR VINCIT OMNIA -- Love conquers all
CARPE DIEM -- Seize the Day
In Spanish:
NO TENGO MAS QUE DARTE -- I have nothing more to give you
but my heart
Christian:
GOD FOR ME PROVIDED THEE
GOD UNITE BOTH IN LOVE
WITH THIS RING, I THEE WED
Use your imagination and write a Posey of your own!
The list of Posey ring sayings is endless!
Varieties of promise
rings:
There are many types of promise rings available, if the ring
is to symbolize engagement then it is worth considering a
diamond promise ring, you can select other stones to sit along
side the diamond also, it is a good idea to look at what colors
your partner wears when choosing a mixed stone promise ring,
have a look in their wardrobe and select a stone that wont
clash with their clothes.
If the promise ring is for a man and will be worn on a daily
basis then it is wise to choose durable metal, titanium being
one of the most popular.
There is also the option to have the ring engraved with your
'promise' this will make the promise ring unique and more
meaningful, this type of ring is extremely romantic and a way
to share your heartfelt sentiments with the one you love.
Depending on your budget will effect which type of promise
ring you purchase whether it be a diamond promise ring, a gold
promise ring, a titanium promise ring or even a silver promise
ring, the most important thing to remember is to make clear the
promise you are making when giving the ring to someone. There
is nothing worse than receiving a ring and assuming it is for
engagement when it is in fact just a symbol of your friendship.
Enclosing a note to explain what the ring is for should clarify
things and avoid embarrassment.
Promise rings are also given to children from parents as
promises to refrain from bad virtues such as smoking or
drinking or even forming a sexual relationship before
marriage.
Some religions also use promise rings to symbolize their
faith. These rings are usually worn by followers and the
promise ring is a commitment to follow the beliefs and
teachings of their religion in everyday life.
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